Keeping Your Promises

How many times have people made promises to you they never kept? How many times has someone given you their word, only to treat it more like a political statement than a promise? How many times have you counted on someone to “be there” for you, but they let you…

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Is Pride a Problem in Your Life?

Even though we are unique in our own God-given ways, with our own unique vices, habits, hangups, and struggles, ONE struggle, in particular, that EVERY man has and battles with is his pride.  And when I say pride, I’m not talking about being “proud” of an accomplishment, achievement, sports team,…

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Don’t Be a Stumbling Block

One of my greatest fears in life is that my disobedience, lack of trust, failure to surrender, self-righteousness, and hypocrisy (among other things of the flesh) would cause others to stumble in their faith or in their pursuit of a relationship with God. I realize that “to whom much is…

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A-R-M Question: How Do You Forgive Yourself?

Many people struggle with Christianity and Christ’s call to “Forgive others as your Father in Heaven has forgiven you.”  And it’s especially difficult to forgive if the person who’s offended, abused, mistreated, take advantage of, lied on, betrayed, and/or manipulated you either denies they did it won’t even apologize for…

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31-Days to More Sex with Your Wife

Let’s face it men, REAL women want us to be sensual WITHOUT it always leading to sex; intimacy WITHOUT intercourse; and affection WITHOUT an erection.  Tough medicine to swallow, yes, but it’s true. So what is a man to do? I’m challenging every married man who’s somewhat “intimately challenged” or who…

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Take Charge of Your Family

I’m not sure how to begin.  So, let’s begin with this; I am a sinner, always have been, and always will be.  BUT, I have been cleansed of my sin by the blood of our Lord Jesus; my sins are seen no more.  They are forgiven, and you can have…

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Be An Example

As fathers, we can choose to be examples to our children (especially our sons) or we can choose to be excuses.  Daniel Beaty, a gifted slam poet, communicates this beautifully in this rendition of his popular poem called “Knock Knock.”  Fathers, you matter more than you can ever imagine or…

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A-R-M Question: How do you know if she’s “THE ONE”?

Some people  believe in “love at first sight,” while others say there’s no such thing.  Whichever side of the fence you stand on, one thing we know for sure is that every REAL MAN (single) who finds himself attracted to a new woman almost involuntarily wonders, “Is she THE ONE?”…

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