It’s Not About You

Ever feel like you can’t win for losing? For every step you take forward, you find yourself taking two steps back? Well, I know that feeling far too well this morning. Proverbs 15:18 says, “A hot-tempered man stirs up conflict, but a patient man calms a quarrel.” I wouldn’t call myself…

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Lift Your Hands and Laugh

  Tim Hawkins’s personal tag line is “Clean Comedy is Easy. Funny Comedy is Hard.” Since giving up his job as a grocery truck driver in 2002, Tim Hawkins has been forging the magical blend between two comedic ideals: A genuinely funny comedy show that caters to the entire family.…

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Are Your Decisions Destroying You?

One of the most difficult truths in life to accept is the fact that “our decisions determine our destiny.” As simple as this lesson is, it’s also one of the most humbling lessons to learn. When we look at our day to day schedules, routines, and appointments, we’ve become so…

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Learn to Laugh

As the husband of a former, decorated police sergeant, I’ll be the first to admit that police officers have gotten a bad rap.  That’s why Master Corporal Jeff Davis of the Dover Police Department is such a breath of fresh air.  This Delaware police officer’s video has gone viral with his…

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A-R-M Question: Rebuilding Trust

How do I start to rebuild trust with my mate? Real Men Connect Reply: I believe “re-building” trust comes down to three (3) things: Confession, Repentance, and Restoration.   1.)  Confession – in order to rebuild trust, you have to first admit that you broke it.  That means you should…

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Feed the Hungry

Every night for the past 12 years, Allan Law, a.k.a. “The Sandwich Man” has driven the streets of Minneapolis delivering sandwiches and basic necessities to the homeless from the back of his minivan. Last year alone, he handed out more than 520,000 sandwiches.  Check out Allan’s amazing story. And the…

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You Can’t Save Your Life

When asked “What’s the biggest fear in a man’s life?” Many men will respond with answers ranging from death to being in debt (and being unable to avoid both). Well personally, I found that men have a hidden fear that most will never share with others. In fact, it’s not…

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Stop Trying to Be Successful!

  As men, we are generally taught to pursue success over significance. If you don’t believe me, just ask the average high school-aged, male student, “What do you want to be when you graduate?”   More than likely, he (like most of us) would be a little unsure of his answer.…

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