How Do You Define “Success”?


If someone asked you to define “Success,” what would you tell him?  Is a man’s success based on how much money he makes? His net worth? His accomplishments? His achievements? His possessions? His popularity? His status? His happiness? Depending on who you ask, the answers to this question may vary.…

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A-R-M Question: Boy or Man?


When does a “boy” officially become a “man”? Is it when he’s old enough to drive, vote, drink, have sex, shave, get a job, move out the house, rent a car, etc? This is a question that society (especially mainstream media) has used to misrepresent Biblical manhood to boys. The…

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Be Careful What You Run To


Almost every man has heard the saying, “When the going get’s tough, the tough get going.” But my question is, “Where does the tough go?” Most men I know usually “go” to their cave (seclusion), their “boy(s),” their vice (medication), their work/job, their “spot,” or their “girl.” Even fewer men…

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Books Every Real Man Should Read


Real Men are leaders, because Real Men are readers.  And Real Men read more than just the sports pages, they read the Bible.  But Real Men don’t stop at only reading the Word of God, but they also read the books of  great men who God has raised up.  …

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How Much Are You Worth?


How do you rebuild your self worth when you’ve lost it, or worse, you never had it in the first place? This was a question a young man asked me after a recent speaking engagement. I told the young man there were two (2) things I would do (and have…

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Help Others Win


  The great Zig Ziglar once said, “You can always get what you want if you help enough people get what they want.” Forget the national championships, program legacy, and all the coaching trophies, Eric Keller, Wartburg Wrestling Coach, personifies manhood, not based on wins, but by helping his boys…

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A-R-M Question: Bearing Burdens


What can I do to ease someone else’s burdens? Real Men Connect Reply: The Bible tells us in Galatians 6:2 that we are to, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” But where do you start if someone close to you has been diagnosed with Cancer,…

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Getting and Staying Motivated


They say that procrastination is the thief of time. But I would dare to say that procrastination is also thief of dreams. So many times, we want to receive the best, but we often put off or fail to discipline ourselves to take the necessary steps to obtain it. A…

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