A-R-M Question: Boy or Man?


When does a “boy” officially become a “man”? Is it when he’s old enough to drive, vote, drink, have sex, shave, get a job, move out the house, rent a car, etc? This is a question that society (especially mainstream media) has used to misrepresent Biblical manhood to boys. The…

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A-R-M Question: Sex Before Marriage?

If you’re a Christian, you already know that God reserves sex for a husband and a wife. However, we live in a society where “waiting while dating” is as “out of date” and “old fashion” as Sega Genesis and rotary dial phones.  So the question good men want to know…

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Pray Over Your Marriage


My wife recently shared this as a post on Facebook, and I thought it was important enough to share it on Real Men Connect.  As husbands, this is a beginning, a first step, towards spiritually leading our family. If you haven’t already, make sure you download our FREE resources to…

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Be Careful What You Run To


Almost every man has heard the saying, “When the going get’s tough, the tough get going.” But my question is, “Where does the tough go?” Most men I know usually “go” to their cave (seclusion), their “boy(s),” their vice (medication), their work/job, their “spot,” or their “girl.” Even fewer men…

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Overcome the Burden of Overwhelm


Have too much time on your hands? Always bored? Don’t have enough to do every day? Yeah, right! Just one day, wouldn’t you like to respond to someone when they ask you, “How are you doing?” by saying, “Man, I feel like I have time to burn; I don’t know…

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Books Every Real Man Should Read


Real Men are leaders, because Real Men are readers.  And Real Men read more than just the sports pages, they read the Bible.  But Real Men don’t stop at only reading the Word of God, but they also read the books of  great men who God has raised up.  …

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How Much Are You Worth?


How do you rebuild your self worth when you’ve lost it, or worse, you never had it in the first place? This was a question a young man asked me after a recent speaking engagement. I told the young man there were two (2) things I would do (and have…

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Help Others Win


  The great Zig Ziglar once said, “You can always get what you want if you help enough people get what they want.” Forget the national championships, program legacy, and all the coaching trophies, Eric Keller, Wartburg Wrestling Coach, personifies manhood, not based on wins, but by helping his boys…

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