A-R-M Question: Rebuilding Trust


How do I start to rebuild trust with my mate? Real Men Connect Reply: I believe “re-building” trust comes down to three (3) things: Confession, Repentance, and Restoration.   1.)  Confession – in order to rebuild trust, you have to first admit that you broke it.  That means you should…

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Lesson on Temptation


1 Corinthians 10:13 – No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. James…

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Feed the Hungry


Every night for the past 12 years, Allan Law, a.k.a. “The Sandwich Man” has driven the streets of Minneapolis delivering sandwiches and basic necessities to the homeless from the back of his minivan. Last year alone, he handed out more than 520,000 sandwiches.  Check out Allan’s amazing story. And the…

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You Can’t Save Your Life


When asked “What’s the biggest fear in a man’s life?” Many men will respond with answers ranging from death to being in debt (and being unable to avoid both). Well personally, I found that men have a hidden fear that most will never share with others. In fact, it’s not…

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How Do I Get There from Here?


One of the best decisions a man can ever make in his life is to intentionally decide to commit himself to pursuing his God-given purpose. You know what I mean by “purpose” – that thing you want to do that makes your heart sing, your blood boil, and your spirit…

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Are You Living On Purpose?


  Who am I?  Why am I here?  Where am I going?  How do I get there from here?  I believe these are four questions that every man (and woman) is looking for answers to (or at least wonders about)?  Even when my son was 9-years old, he was curious…

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Stop Trying to Be Successful!


  As men, we are generally taught to pursue success over significance. If you don’t believe me, just ask the average high school-aged, male student, “What do you want to be when you graduate?”   More than likely, he (like most of us) would be a little unsure of his answer.…

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